MAMA Spotlight: Stephanie Barnes

Real Cushii journeys. Everyday #mumlife.

In this instalment of our Mama Spotlight series we’re getting a rare peek into this creative household on the sunny Queensland Sunshine Coast.

That’s where freelance photographer, Stephanie Barnes, and her musician husband, Jackie, are living the dream with their two gorgeous daughters, Bella and Zoey, and the latest addition to the family, 8-months-old baby boy Kai.

Not surprisingly, you’ll often find this sun-loving family soaking up the rays on their local beach or watching daddy take centre stage at a live concert. 

Music is a true family affair. So much so that Stephanie has started learning the guitar to unwind after an often full-on day with the kids.

We had the absolute pleasure to chat with Stephanie about her parenting journey and some tried-and-tested tips she can share with the Cushii community.

Stephanie, can you share with us how you’ve experienced the early days of motherhood? 

“I feel like I hit the jackpot in that department, because my mum spent most of her life as a midwife. Her knowledge and wisdom has helped me incredibly, from the entire birthing experience to breastfeeding and the general "Holy moly, am I doing this right and what do I do now?!".

So for me, the transition into motherhood was enjoyable and I really hope I can pass all of that wisdom on to my children too. I definitely still have days where I think I may lose my sanity altogether, but I've accepted that it's a big rollercoaster. Amazing moments for the most part and the kids spice it up and throw in some crazy for a bit of flavour!

Life would be bland if it was perfect all of the time, right?”

Can you share some favourite mama moments with us?

“I love seeing them grow in confidence and give new things a go.

It's the best feeling when they smile, cuddle me tight & tell me that they love me. And that I'm the best mama in the world! Hopefully they never stop doing that!”

What has been the biggest eye-opener that you simply weren’t prepared for?

“The mess! I would love a magazine spread, tidy, minimalist home! But my girls are creative which also means constant mess in our house!

All that mess is so worth it thought when I see their little creations. Proud mama moments right there.”

Now, let’s talk all things Cushii. How have you made the Cushii Lounger a firm part of your daily routine? 

“I am obsessed with how light, soft and portable the Cushii lounger is.

I take it to the beach with me so Kai is not covered in sand. Miraculously, the sand just glides right off the lounger when I give it a little shake!

Kai really loves chilling in the Cushii lounger at home, and it's been such a great addition to all things newborn!”

Looking back on the first few months with each of your 3 tiny humans, what are the 5 newborn essentials could you not have survived without?

1. TheLove to Dream swaddles
2. BIBS dummies
3. A playmat
4. The Cushii lounger for a break from carrying my bubs
5. A  Bugaboo pram. Gosh, they are pricey but worth every penny. I am still using mine from 8 years ago. It has stood the test of time with all 3 kids!!

And one final question before we let you get back to your gorgeous family, what values are most important for you to pass on to your kids?

1. Always be kind to others. But remember to be kind to yourself too!

2. Follow your passion in life.

3. And never give up.

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Photography & Video's by: @steffybarnes.

Music by: @melissaottomusic

*You can follow Stephanie’s family adventures on Instagram @steffybarnes.